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Wish I can help you all, girls… However, I’m not a calf reduction surgeon. I’m not a fitness instructor. I don’t live in Korea, China or Taiwan either. I’m just a woman with those thick calves you all hated too. We all are in the same board; I know how you feel. Except, I look at my big calves as a blessing from God, well, they’ve took me to every place I want to go. Without them I might be useless he he. More, if I hate them then it means I also hate God who gave them to me (for some good reason that I can’t figure out yet). Besides, a pair of slim calf is not that important.

I guess… In life, you are always filled with choices. You may opt to have a pessimist's view and live a self-defeated life or you may decide to take the optimist's route and take a challenging and fulfilling life.

Some wisdom words for all of us:

"Two men look out through the same bars: One sees the mud, and one sees the stars."
Frederick Langbridge, a Cluster of Quiet Thoughts

“Despite of what may happen to all of us in the next ten, twenty, or even thirty years, I guess we all have to see things in a different kind of light and not just perspective. I can't seem to imagine life without any piece of wisdom that could guide us. Whether we're religious or not, it takes more courage to accept your fears and learn how to deal with them is all that matters when it comes to even just getting along.”

And to sum things up - however, whenever, and wherever we may be…

"The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don't have."

Wish I can do more than this. Wish I can help you find the good surgeon (if you really need those calf reduction surgeries), accompany you through it, or just being your true friend to help you through the days…

PS. You know, Yoga or Pilates may do some great thing to your body...